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Self Employment
Self-employment is the ultimate freedom. Once you have found a way to be self-employed, and you have at least some success within it, you will find that it gives you amazing flexibility, a deep sense of job security, all the joy of not having a boss, and the knowing that you are in charge of your life. What more could anyone want from a way to earn a living?
If you are making the transition into self-employment, or if you already are self-employed and are needing some encouragement, I have gathered some important suggestions to help ease you into this most liberating experience.
First off, you have to rally take a close look at what underlies your sense of security. Can you get true security from a 9-5 job as an employee? Sure, there is an undeniable steadiness factor involved: You work and gert a reliable paycheck. There is some security in that, but it may or may not be only skin deep.
Do you have a true sense of trusting the course of you life? Can you embrace change and growth and flow? Those are the attributes that bring a deeper sense of security. Self-employment may help foster those attributes more than a 9-5 job can. The reason? 9-5 jobs as an employee are not can come and go to!
You may be fired, or your spouse may need move, or a life change can abruptly end the job for you.
So, never get your true security for your job. If you look for it there, you will have a life laden with disappointment. Or at best, you will have a steady life, with an equal amount of fear that it is going to become unsteady.
You have to get your security from the inside. That is the most important thing you must learn in order to transition into self-employment.
Once you start to do that, you need to make peace with being under-employed. At some point, you will need to quit your old job, right? Take the leap of faith? Of course, it is scary, but you must find a way to accept it, and if you do not find a way, becoming self-employed could stay forever out of reach.
So, most likely, under employment will be your state of affairs at first. If you are eligible for unemployment benefits, now is the time to cash them in. Many people who are transitioning out of being employed actually find ways to collect unemployment as they are making this life change.
It is not as hard as you may think to become self-employed. You start from the ground up. Learn from people who have done it. Go to libraries and read books on it. Get your true security from the iside, take action and you will find you way. The freedom of self-employment may be just what the doctor ordered.
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